We’re about the same age and we have a lot in common, most notably the fact that he’s into guys as well. And this is just what happened to me last Saturday night… My neighbor, Mr. You rarely understand the significance of a moment while it’s happening… but then there are those experiences which are so utterly mind-blowing, you just know, there and then, that nothing in your life will ever be the same again. When you look back on your life, it’s often possible to pinpoint certain specific moments when its course was altered indelibly.